12 Cute, Weird, and Sweet Little Tips for a Healthy Relationship (All Happy Couples Follow!)

In the rollercoaster of a relationship, you’ll always come across those bumps and sharp turns. Yet, we know couples who enjoy this bumpy ride. All happy couples follow little pieces of relationship advice to make it through this rollercoaster.

It’s natural and obvious to fight and have conflicts in a relationship. Deep inside, we all want our partners to fight more for the relationship. It’s hard to find a middle ground!

Two individuals, unique lives, own thought process, different friend circle, and so on…

Still, don’t you feel at home with the person you love?

I do and I believe that everyone feels this. There is always a strong foundation of love and belongingness lying behind those little cold wars.

Do you want to be one of those love-radiating happy and content couples? (Why not?)

Here’s a small list of tips from as much as I’ve learned, observed, and experienced. So, let’s dive in without further ado.

• The good-morning wishes: It really brings a smile to their face and kick starts the day. Spend five minutes of your morning by just being with your partner. (No matter how much late you are running.)

• Be best friends with your partner: Being their closest friend is the ultimate foundation you can have for a long-lasting relationship. Once you experience this, I swear you’ll never have that urge to have more close friends on your list.

• Never go to bed angry (I repeat, neverrrr): Never let them stay upset. Even if it’s just a minor quarrel and not a deeper argument. Make sure you don’t turn out the lights before the issue is resolved. After all, you don’t want your brains to process those negative memories for the whole night.

• Spend time with each other: That goes without saying though. Even if you are super occupied. Talk about how their day went. Discuss your concerns, your future, and pretty much everything you want to get off your chests.

• Don’t forget the principle of mutual spoiling: Pamper them by planning the date nights. Write cute little notes to each other every now and then. It doesn’t need to be extravagant. Fold his laundry while he is buying the grocery. It really is the little things!

• Small gestures go a long way: Encourage them to follow their passion (Mine is a hardcore music lover <3) and give compliments to each other. Small gestures like you texting him to ask if he has reached home or him waiting for you to get inside the home while dropping you back have a great significance in your relationship.

• Apologize. Repair the damages. Bounce back from the heated argument: It’s not always butterflies and rainbows, it’s a compromise as well. Don’t think of it as a negative term. Don’t hold a grudge, put your ego aside, and do things that make them happy. He may be the one putting in the effort to resolve the argument, apologize, and make everything good most of the time. You take the initiative this time. Show him you are his person too.

• Cook for your partner: An easy Maggi or a fancy lasagne. It’s always the thought that counts. Plus, the love you infuse in it!

• Create & know your love language: Laugh at each other’s lame jokes. Be weird with each other. Take weird pictures. Have weird dance moves. He and I play this weird thumb fight game often. We also have a weird Spotify playlist. Let me know yours. 😉

• Respect your partner’s family: Respect each other’s family and the bond they share with each other. Create this affectionate relationship. Try to resolve any conflicts as and when they arise between the families. Also, support your partner the whole time. It’s a cute love bubble you surround yourself with.

• Share your vulnerable side: It isn’t the most pleasant thing. Share from your heart and open up. However, it strengthens the love or marital relationship. Talk about your challenges, fears, weaknesses, and what you need. Be vulnerable first and let them be vulnerable with you.

• Say I love you: Every couple has their way of expressing love. Many of them miss the saying ‘I love you’ part. These three words can make your partner feel loved and special. You can never say it enough.

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Prepared and all inspired?

So, that’s it. It’s the secret of those so-in-love darn cute couples.

It’s easier than you think. You can be one of them and have it all figured out now.

Enjoy these tips and share your thoughts with us! Happy reading… 🙂